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Davey and the Gang visit the top 5 breweries in Washington DC, according to him.
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Mayor Bowser Awards 2018 Great Streets Small Business Grants, 5/4/18
Mayor Muriel Bowser awards over $2.6 million in Great Streets Small Business Capital Improvement Reimbursement Grants to 53 small businesses across all eight wards.
This investment continues the Bowser Administration’s efforts to support local businesses, create new job opportunities for DC residents, and grow the District’s emerging neighborhoods.
“Small businesses are the backbone of our economy – they create jobs and business for DC residents and neighborhoods and help us give Washingtonians in all eight wards a fair shot,” said Mayor Bowser. “It is fitting that we celebrate the Great Streets grantees during Small Business Week, highlighting all they do to create opportunity and drive innovation in Washington, DC.”
The competitive grants were awarded to small business owners who represent the District’s diverse business community, from restaurants and retail to fitness centers and creative spaces. The Fiscal Year 2018 grantees include:
· Ward 1: Habesha Market, Harrar Coffee and Roastery, Howard Deli, Johnnie's Florist, A-List Cultivating Salon, Sticky Fingers Sweets & Eats, SWEAT DC, Paisley Fig, Patrick's Pet Care, Picture Frame Factory Corporation, Rise Bakery, Urban Scoop
· Ward 2: Imm Thai on 9th restaurant
· Ward 3: Sports Performance Group Fitness
· Ward 4: BBQ Bus Smokehouse, Catherine’s Kitchen, Fia's Fabulous Finds, Freeman's House of Styles, Gedera Market, Haute Hair, Imm Thai on Georgia, Lulabelle’s Sweet Shop, L’Enfant Florist, PRMP Brow and Beauty Studio, Sandovan Restaurant & Lounge, Three Stars Brewing Company, UMAC World Child Development, Uneeda Market
· Ward 5: Calabash Tea and Tonic, Creative Grounds DC, Dudley Beauty College, Fitness Snob Studio, Fresh Cuts Barbershop, Fun It Up DMV, Gravitas NW, Jam Doung Style, Midtown Market, Number 1 Sons, Republic Cantina, Tastemakers Incubator, T&G Grocery
· Ward 6: Lagree DC, Sidamo Coffee and Tea, Solid State Books
· Ward 7: Capitol Wings Factory, Helen Mart, Powell Manufacturing Industries, Inc.
· Ward 8: Duende District, Honfleur Limited Arts, Martin’s Foodtown, PJ’s Cut and Style Salon, Pro Cut Barbershop, Reel Brothers Enterprise
The Great Streets program aims to transform 13 designated retail priority areas and foster small business development with new and existing businesses, stimulate job growth, and increase the District’s tax base to improve commercial vibrancy along the city’s corridors and surrounding neighborhoods. The areas are: Pennsylvania Avenue, SE; Georgia Avenue, NW; Nannie Helen Burroughs Avenue, NE; 7th Street, NW, North Capitol Street, NW & NE; Rhode Island Avenue, NE; Martin Luther King, Jr. Avenue, SE and South Capitol Street, SE; Minnesota Avenue and Benning Road, NE and SE; Bladensburg Road, NE; Connecticut Avenue, NW; U Street – 14th Street, NW; Wisconsin Avenue, NW; H Street-Bladensburg Road, NE.
Through Great Streets, the Bowser Administration has awarded more than $14 million to 274 small businesses and helped create an estimated 1,000 jobs.
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Depression, the secret we share | Andrew Solomon
The opposite of depression is not happiness, but vitality, and it was vitality that seemed to seep away from me in that moment. In a talk equal parts eloquent and devastating, writer Andrew Solomon takes you to the darkest corners of his mind during the years he battled depression. That led him to an eye-opening journey across the world to interview others with depression -- only to discover that, to his surprise, the more he talked, the more people wanted to tell their own stories. (Filmed at TEDxMet.)
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HRN 374: (Chicago) Marathon Man on Ham Radio Now
The New York Marathon. World's biggest, right? And Ham Radio is huge there.
The Boston Marathon. Ham Radio is big there, too. And it's, what, #2?
Nope. Worldwide, it's not even close. In the USA, it's #3 (as of 2015, anyway, the last year a quick web search had stats).
So who's #2. The Marine Corps Marathon in DC? Nope. (But ham radio is big there, too).
#2 is Chicago. The perpetual Second City (even though Los Angeles took that USA title a few decades ago). And yes, even though you've never heard of it, nearly 150 hams pitch in to help it run smoothly.
Rob Orr K9RST has been the lead ham for the Chicago Marathon for the past decade, recruiting from a coalition of radio clubs and individual hams to provide communications for the medical side of the event (similar to the ham's mission at Boston). And as you'll hear, he really has a handle on it all.
Host David Goldenberg W0DHG leads this chat, as Gary KN4AQ hides behind the scenes (mostly). And note that this is the usual in-depth interview, but the show really runs about 95 minutes, and the rest is the 'post-show party' (aka The Best Part of the Show).
FINDING THE LOVE IN VIRGINIA - AN RV ROAD TRIP. From Raceways to Scenic Roads - RV Style | RV Life
Virginia is for LOVERS! So we hit the road for a road trip, from raceways to scenic roads, RV style - looking for love.
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[Now with Subtitles] OneCoin - a behind the scenes reveal with critics and Duncan Arthur & his team
OneCoin - a behind the scenes reveal with critics and Duncan Arthur & his team, 29 July 2019
The OneCoin critics on this webinar are not affliliated nor do we endorse in any way byCoi and/or other projects discussed in this webinar. This webinar on our part is strictly about onecoin and we ask anyone to do their own due diligence.
Webinar publishing was approved by both parties.
OneCoin critics: Jen McAdam, Lynndel Lynn Edgington, Tim Tayshun Curry, Jon Walsh
Duncan Arthur's team: Duncan Arthur, Jan-Eric Nyman, Gary Gilford, Dorothee Rubman, Lloyd Moor
Table Of Content:
08:08 Lynn asks when and where Duncan met Ruja Ignatova and what position Duncan was hired for
10:35 Lynn asks when Duncan started working with the new DealShaker platform and what happened then
13:05 Lynn asks how Duncan could work knowing all the negative information what was available about OneCoin
15:35 Lynn asked why Duncan released a statement indicating he would continue working for OneCoin if Sofia apologizes to him
17:45 Lynn wonders how long the OneCoin can still operate
24:00 Lloyd Moor talks about Duncan, OneCoin and ByCoi
27:30 Tim talks about his history and introduction to OneCoin
36:58 Duncan talks about ByCoi. Tim asks questions about ByCoi
43:00 Jen asks from Jan-Eric when he realized Onecoin wasn't right
Celebrating the East Building Twentieth-Century Art Series, Part 12: Pop Art
David Gariff, senior lecturer, National Gallery of Art. In all of art history, only one movement dared to predict public and commercial success in its very name. The distinction is appropriate, because pop art was all about commerce and consumption from the beginning. Emerging in mid-1950s Great Britain and soon spreading to the United States, pop was a creature of the postwar boom, when television, advertising, fast food, birth rates, home appliances, and suburban sprawl were quickly changing daily life in the developed world. Works by Andy Warhol, Roy Lichtenstein, and Claes Oldenburg reflect a new syntax of imagery drawn from popular culture and mass media, devoid of exalted art historical themes and the personal expression that were hallmarks of abstract expressionist painting. As part of the series Celebrating the East Building: 20th-Century Art, senior lecturer David Gariff considers the wide variety of objects, themes, and working methods that characterized pop art and the way it blurred distinctions between high art and popular culture. This lecture was presented on August 23, 2018, at the National Gallery of Art.
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How to insert images using HTML and CSS | Learn HTML and CSS | HTML tutorial | Basics of CSS. In this lesson we will learn how to create an HTML image in our website page. We will learn how to insert images using HTML and we will learn how to insert images as a CSS background image, which also allow for us to create banners.
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Autonomous car | Wikipedia audio article
This is an audio version of the Wikipedia Article:
00:00:46 1 History
00:05:40 2 Definitions
00:06:33 2.1 Words definition and safety considerations
00:07:55 2.2 Autonomous vs. automated
00:10:36 2.3 Autonomous versus cooperative
00:11:18 2.4 Self-driving car
00:14:07 2.5 Classification
00:15:23 2.5.1 Levels of driving automation
00:19:32 3 Legal definition
00:21:25 4 Semi-automated vehicles
00:22:19 5 Technical challenges
00:25:43 6 Nature of the digital technology
00:26:29 6.1 Homogenization and decoupling
00:28:06 6.2 Connectivity
00:29:55 6.3 Reprogrammable
00:31:26 6.4 Digital traces
00:32:12 6.5 Modularity
00:36:27 7 Human factor challenges
00:39:13 8 Testing
00:43:37 9 Fields of application
00:43:48 9.1 Automated trucks
00:46:20 9.2 Transport systems
00:47:57 10 Potential advantages
00:48:08 10.1 Safety
00:50:16 10.2 Welfare
00:51:23 10.3 Traffic
00:53:28 10.4 Lower costs
00:53:44 10.5 Energy and environmental impacts
00:55:14 10.6 Parking space
00:56:22 10.7 Related effects
00:57:45 11 Potential limits or obstacles
01:02:11 12 Potential disadvantages
01:08:36 13 Potential changes for different industries
01:10:27 13.1 Taxis
01:11:04 13.2 Healthcare, car repair, and car insurance
01:13:50 13.3 Rescue, emergency response, and military
01:15:19 13.4 Interior design and entertainment
01:16:22 13.5 Telecommunication and energy
01:18:10 13.6 Restaurant, hotels, and airlines
01:19:53 13.7 Elderly, disabled, and children
01:22:15 14 Incidents
01:22:25 14.1 Tesla Autopilot
01:29:55 14.2 Waymo
01:32:39 14.3 Uber
01:34:34 14.4 Navya automated bus driving system
01:35:21 15 Policy implications
01:35:31 15.1 Urban planning
01:39:32 15.2 Legislation
01:40:18 15.2.1 Legal status in the United States
01:45:07 15.2.2 Legislation in Europe
01:47:07 15.2.3 Legislation in Asia
01:47:37 15.3 Liability
01:51:02 16 Vehicular communication systems
01:53:43 17 Public opinion surveys
01:58:52 18 Moral issues
02:06:32 19 Anticipated launch of cars
02:07:26 20 In fiction
02:07:35 20.1 In film
02:11:35 20.2 In literature
02:13:35 20.3 In television
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A self-driving car, also known as a robot car, autonomous car, or driverless car, is a vehicle that is capable of sensing its environment and moving with little or no human input.Autonomous cars combine a variety of sensors to perceive their surroundings, such as radar, Lidar, sonar, GPS, odometry and inertial measurement units. Advanced control systems interpret sensory information to identify appropriate navigation paths, as well as obstacles and relevant signage.Long distance trucks are seen as being in the forefront of adopting and implementing the technology.
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AIR Dibrugarh Programme Schedule:
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DAY: SATURDAY, DATE: 19/10/2019
TRANSMISSION – I (5.28 AM to 9.35 AM)
5.28 AIR Signature Tune:
5.30 Vandemataram/ Opening Announcement Mangal Vadya
6.00 News in Hindi:
6.05 Neeti Bachan & Programme Summary:
6:10 Swasthya Charcha: Interview on “Uric Acidor Samashya” With Dr. Sharat Hazarika.
6:15 Borgeet : Artist: Arun Hazarika.
6:30 Classical Music: (Santoor Recital) Artist: Pt. Bhajan Sapori , Raga: Nat-Bhairava
6:45 Folk Music: (Lokageet) Artist: Punit Dihingia.
7.05 News in Assamese
7:15 “AjirDinto” (Morning Information Programme)
7.30 GEETANJALI: 1. Artist: Shivcharan Das, Lyc: Kishor Das, JeevanNao Mur…2. Artist: Sangeeta Borkakoti , Lyc: Apurba Bezbaruah, Sharatar Shewali… 3. Artist: Shivani Baruah Phukan , Lyc: Monorama Borgohain, Shewali Shewali… 4 Artist: Samar Hazarika, Lyc: Satish Das, Jeevan Dekhu…5. Artist: Sushil Lahon, Lyc: Ahmed Shah, Sharodi Neel Akash…
7.55 Commercial Spot
8.00 Samachar Prabhat. :
8.15 Morning News:
8.30 North East News Bulletin in English:
8.35 “SURAR PANCHOI” (Composite) Assamese Film Songs
8.50 Puwar Anchalik Batori
9.00 Jilar Rehrup:
9.05 “ANTARA” (Composite)/Hindi Film Songs
9.35 Weather Report /Time Reading , Closing Announcement, Close Down
TRANSMISSION: II (11.28 AM to 3.00 PM)
11.58 AIR Signature Tune/Opening Announcement
12.00 News in English
12.05 Singpho Songs:
12.15 Folk Song: (Naam Prasanga) , Artist: Himeswar Bharali & Pty.
12.30 Hindi Film Song: Film: Sanam, Raju Ban Gaya Gentleman, Lootera, PhoolAurKaante,
Andaz Apna Apna, Deewana Mujh Sa Nahin.
1.00 News in English:
1.05 News in Hindi:
1.10 Troops Programme
1.40 News in Assamese:
1.50 Adhunik Geet: Artist: Reeta Ganguly
2.00 “Kuhinpaat” (Programme for Tiny tots)
2.15 Dopahar Samachar:
2.30 Western Music:
3.00 Weather Report /Time Reading , Closing Announcement, Close Down
TRANSMISSION : III (3.28 PM to 10.30 PM)
3.28 AIR Signature Tune/Opening Announcement
3.30 Mishing Songs: Artist: Chandiram Pegu
3.45 Programme in Mijumishimi
4.05 Programme in Khampti
4.25 Programme in Wancho
4.45 News in Hindi
4.55 News in English.
5.00 Programme in Idu
5.20 Programme in Tangsa
5.40 Programme in Nocte
6.00 Anchalik Batori
6.05 Programme Summary
6.10 Niyog Batori
6.15 GANYA RAIJOR ANUSTHAN: (Rural Programme) Putaoloi Chithi, By - Pabitra Dadhara
6.45 Sandhiyar Anchalik Batori
6.55 Aajir Prasanga:
7.00 News in Hindi
7.05 News in Assamese
7.15 “YUVABANI”: (Youth Programme) “Vasudhaiva Kutumbakam” (Special programme on Cross Culture) : Featuring “Rajasthan”
7.45 DaakPakhili (Answer to Listeners’ Letters)
8.00 Time & Metre Reading/Quotation, “Ekalabya” Sponsored Programme of K.K. Handique
State Open University
8.30 Geetar Sarai: Artist: Ramkrishna Mukherjee, Production: Utpal Dutta
8.40 Programme Highlight
8.42 Commercial Spot:
8.45 Samachar Sandhya:
9.00 News at Nine
9.15 Commercial Spot:
9.16 Bare Rahania: (Parody Songs) Artist: Munin Dutta.
9.25 Nishar Anchalik Batori:
9.30 Radio Serial- “Moi Majuliye Koicho” Written & Produced by Syed Sadulla.
10.00 Classical Music: (Shehnai Recital) Artist: Ustad Ali Ahmed Hussain & Pty., Rag: Gorakh Kalyan.
10.30 Weather Report/Time Reading, Closing Announcement , Close Down…………
NOTE : THE PROGRAMME SCHEDULE IS SUBJECT TO LAST MINUTE CHANGE.
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AIR Dibrugarh Programme Schedule :
F.M. 101.3 MHz
DAY: THURSDAY, DATE: 17-10-2019
6.00 T/Live Anchalik Batori
6.05 G/ Programme Summery
6.10 G/ Vrindagaan:
6.15 G/ LAKHIMI: (Gaya Mahilar Anusthan) Interview on “Sontulito Swasthyo” With Dr. Krishna Barua Patgiri.
6.45 RVUG Sandhiyar Anchalik Batori
6.55 RVUG Aajir Prasanga
7.00 RVUD News in Hindi
7.05 RVUG News in Assamese
7.15 G/ “YUVABANI”: (Youth Programme) Sahitya Shitan : 1) Self Composed Poem Recitation By Manashi Changmai. 2) Short Story. ByKshriprakalpa Gogoi. 3) Talk: “Dainondin Jivanat Polithinor Byabahar Kom Korar Porikalpana Kidore Koribo” By Gautam Sharma.
7.45 G/ Adhunik Geet: Artist: Rumi Goswami.
8.00 G/ Time & Meter Reading: Sponsored Programme: GYANMALINI, Dibrugarh University.
8.30 G/ Jnan-Bijnan Talk-“Jala Podangko Hraskaran Jala Sangkat Mochanar Onyotom Upai” By Sailendra Mohan Das.
8.40 G/ Programme Highlight
8.42 RVUD Commercial Spot:
8.45 RVUD Samachar Sandhya:
9.00 RVUD News at Nine:
9.15 RVUD Commercial Spot:
9.16 G/ Bare Rahania: Radio Report on the lecture programme organized by Centre for Women's Studies, Dibrugarh University on Women's Lives : Patriarchy, Gender, Masculinity.
9.25 RVUG/ Nishar Anchalik Batori:
9.30 G/ Mor Anubhabar Geet Presented by: Nilabh Nayan Bordoloi
10.00 G/ Classical Music: (Vocal) Artist: Pt. Siyaram Tiwar Rag: Kalawati & Thumri in Misra Khamaj
10.30 G/ Weather Report/Time Reading Closing Announcement Close Down………… (BOTH FM/AM)
Auburn Coach Wife Kristi Malzahn Agrees with Match & eHarmony: Men are Jerks
My advice is this: Settle! That's right. Don't worry about passion or intense connection. Don't nix a guy based on his annoying habit of yelling Bravo! in movie theaters. Overlook his halitosis or abysmal sense of aesthetics. Because if you want to have the infrastructure in place to have a family, settling is the way to go. Based on my observations, in fact, settling will probably make you happier in the long run, since many of those who marry with great expectations become more disillusioned with each passing year. (It's hard to maintain that level of zing when the conversation morphs into discussions about who's changing the diapers or balancing the checkbook.)
Obviously, I wasn't always an advocate of settling. In fact, it took not settling to make me realize that settling is the better option, and even though settling is a rampant phenomenon, talking about it in a positive light makes people profoundly uncomfortable. Whenever I make the case for settling, people look at me with creased brows of disapproval or frowns of disappointment, the way a child might look at an older sibling who just informed her that Jerry's Kids aren't going to walk, even if you send them money. It's not only politically incorrect to get behind settling, it's downright un-American. Our culture tells us to keep our eyes on the prize (while our mothers, who know better, tell us not to be so picky), and the theme of holding out for true love (whatever that is—look at the divorce rate) permeates our collective mentality.
Even situation comedies, starting in the 1970s with The Mary Tyler Moore Show and going all the way to Friends, feature endearing single women in the dating trenches, and there's supposed to be something romantic and even heroic about their search for true love. Of course, the crucial difference is that, whereas the earlier series begins after Mary has been jilted by her fiancé, the more modern-day Friends opens as Rachel Green leaves her nice-guy orthodontist fiancé at the altar simply because she isn't feeling it. But either way, in episode after episode, as both women continue to be unlucky in love, settling starts to look pretty darn appealing. Mary is supposed to be contentedly independent and fulfilled by her newsroom family, but in fact her life seems lonely. Are we to assume that at the end of the series, Mary, by then in her late 30s, found her soul mate after the lights in the newsroom went out and her work family was disbanded? If her experience was anything like mine or that of my single friends, it's unlikely.
And while Rachel and her supposed soul mate, Ross, finally get together (for the umpteenth time) in the finale of Friends, do we feel confident that she'll be happier with Ross than she would have been had she settled down with Barry, the orthodontist, 10 years earlier? She and Ross have passion but have never had long-term stability, and the fireworks she experiences with him but not with Barry might actually turn out to be a liability, given how many times their relationship has already gone up in flames. It's equally questionable whether Sex and the City's Carrie Bradshaw, who cheated on her kindhearted and generous boyfriend, Aidan, only to end up with the more exciting but self-absorbed Mr. Big, will be better off in the framework of marriage and family. (Some time after the breakup, when Carrie ran into Aidan on the street, he was carrying his infant in a Baby Björn. Can anyone imagine Mr. Big walking around with a Björn?)